Why is dating so hard for men but so easy for women?

hey day dream about this, “I wish it was that easy for me. Women would approach me left and right, and in between”.

But wishing is a pretty fucked up thing and the results speak for themselves. The fact is passive men wish a lot, assume a lot but then they tend to date their left or right hand.

And the truth about women is far less dazzling than they assume. Honestly, I find women have a lot harder time than men, why?

1 - Not All Men That Approach Women Are…

Good apples!

A woman that is average looking will often get approached by men especially if she has a good attitude. Perhaps, she’ll get approached by more men than a beautiful women at least face to face. I guess beautiful women get more interactions through social media networks.

Since men find it more intimidating to approach them face to face.

However, not all men that approach women are the type of guys they want. For instance:

• Drunk men in bars and nightclubs
• Old and horny men
• Timid men that stutter over their words like a bitch in cocaine

I believe women get more approach by these type of men rather than the James Bonds that they want

2 - Women Don’t Think Like Men

For most men what I just described before may still sound pretty darn hot! They imagine, “I’d definitely have sex with a drunk woman that approached me in a nightclub; or that hot horny granny that is 69 years old”.

We are a bunch of horny little mofos. The fact is men can have sex with a woman like they were eating cereal for breakfast. I mean, without feeling superbly attracted to a woman and without getting attached to her afterward.

We can usually distinguish between a woman we would only have sex with from one we consider relationship material.

However, women commonly will only have sex with a man they feel emotional connected and safe with and that’s a huge… difference!

The other part is woman that are known to have sex with plenty of men will be outcast by their peers and be labeled as, “a slut, bitch” and other nice names.

On contrary, a man that has a lot of choice with women will be considered a stallion by most men but also women. Actually, women seem to love men that have slept with a lot of women.

If their female friend has already made a test run on a guy they will most often want to try him too.

Therefore, women tend to be more selective than most men.

3 - Being Passive IS a BITCH!

Just imagine needing to wait around for dudes to approach you. Whenever you see a guy that you like you need to wait for him to make the first step.

In case you decide to do it yourself then you run the risk of being labeled all sorts of names by your peers and ultimately, get outcast.

You basically end up only dating the men that fall into your net; you don’t have any choice besides the men that decide to approach you, or the ones you meet between your group of friends.

Damn… for me that would be a bitch! For most women dating becomes a game of luck a heck a lot of patience.

Of waiting around and hoping for that cute guy to approach you because he sees you looking at him. Oh… and let’s not forget they must also rely on their physical beauty to initially charm him.

Final Conclusions

I feel that women have it a lot harder than men. Seriously, I’d not want to be a woman in terms of dating.

The fact is the only men that struggle in meeting women are the passive men. The men that act similarly to women.

Commonly, they wait for women to show them a sequence of behavioral signs. Oh… she needs to pull her hair back, then look at me in certain way before I say hi to her, or some other bullshit.

I know this because I used to be like this and I still have friends who are yet passive. Nowadays, I see how fucking confusing and complex they are about dating. It drives me nuts just speaking to them. I feel like slapping them on the face until they wake the fuck up.

You need that to just say, “Hi” to a girl for fuck’s sake get serious! They also tend to overthink mostly poorly about themselves but also women; have all these doubts and questions similar to yours.

All because they aren’t willing to get out of their little box and approach women they like, or just say, “Hi” to a girl they see in the gym and speak to her for a bit and then invite her out.

Now for men that are willing to do whatever the fuck it takes; these men live the good life of a stallion; these men never truly lack dates, sex or whatever they want.

Besides, many times they aren’t even the most good looking men ever, yes they know how to dress well, are fit and have a good body posture. However, simply because they are willing to take action and not wait around like a wuss they get shit loads of women.

They don’t wait for all the green signs and for the next full moon to say, hi to a girl. Actually, they don’t think about anything much at all. Instead they take action and say, “Fuck it, why not!” and more times than not get the women they want!

There’s very little struggle for the men that are proactive; and there’s a lot of struggles, frustrations, doubts, fears for the ones that are passive.

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